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Who Is Josh Pellicer?

The dating coach behind Tao of Badass, his origin story, and what sets his approach apart.

Updated October 21, 2026 · By the Attraction Atlas Editorial Team

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Quick answerJosh Pellicer is an American dating coach and the author of Tao of Badass. He's known for teaching average guys attraction through social psychology, especially pre-selection and body language, rather than memorized pickup lines.

Background

By his own telling, Josh grew up in a trailer park and was short, slight, not athletic and terrible with women. He studied psychology in college in Florida. After a humiliating breakup period that ended with him sleeping in his car in North Carolina, he committed to figuring attraction out. He says he read psychology textbooks, dating and etiquette books, and watched hundreds of hours of training on rapport, body language, persuasion and personality typing. Out of that came the patterns that became Tao of Badass.

His approach

Josh positions himself as the "average guy" coach. His core message is that attraction isn't reserved for rich, tall or ripped men. Instead he focuses on:

That separates him from classic "pickup artist" material built on scripts and routines. Tao is about how you carry yourself, not lines.

Media mentions

In his presentation, Josh says he has been invited onto NBC's Today Show, featured on Current TV, mentioned in newspapers and online magazines, and hosted a satellite radio show on SiriusXM. We list these as he states them and haven't independently verified each one.

Where to start with his material

Most people meet Josh through the free Hacking Attraction presentation, which sums up his philosophy in one sitting.

Watch the Free Attraction Presentation →